Divorce and separation often raise difficult questions around financial arrangements, the care of children, and other points of contention – but you don’t have to go to court to resolve them. With several out-of-court pathways available, our Family team is here to help you understand what each option involves, identify the most efficient and effective route – or combination of routes – for your situation, and support you through the process.
Drawing on our extensive experience across all non‑court processes, we can help you establish which approach is the best fit for your circumstances. This could be a model that fosters thoughtful, facilitated dialogue – such as mediation or collaborative practice – allowing you to shape your own agreement with dignity and clarity. Alternatively, you may prefer the insight of an impartial evaluator who can offer a non‑binding indication through early neutral evaluation (in children matters) or a private financial dispute resolution. For those seeking finality, arbitration provides a decisive determination by an appointed specialist. Whatever your chosen pathway, we guide you with precision, care, and intellectual rigour.
Navigating the complex and sensitive issues that arise during a divorce or separation can be emotionally charged and challenging. Our philosophy is forward‑looking and deeply human. We will guide you through this transition with compassion and confidence, ensuring that the choices you make now support your wellbeing – and that of your family – long into the future.
Understanding your options
What is Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR)?
NCDR refers to a range of constructive approaches to resolving disputes outside of court – including mediation, collaborative practice, arbitration and early neutral evaluation. These dispute resolution mechanisms empower families to find fair, practical solutions together, without the stress, emotional toll and cost of court proceedings.
Why do many families choose NCDR over going to court?
Our clients tell us that they value the privacy, flexibility and dignity that NCDR offers. It’s typically faster, more cost-effective, and allows for tailored solutions that reflect your family’s unique circumstances – alleviating the financial and emotional burdens that frequently accompany court proceedings.
Is NCDR suitable for my situation?
Most family matters, from financial arrangements to child-related issues, can be resolved through NCDR. Our team will guide you through the range of options available and help you choose the path that is both right for your circumstances and aligned with your aims.
What NCDR services does Forsters offer?
We offer a full suite of non-court options: mediation, collaborative law, arbitration, early neutral evaluation (ENE) including private financial dispute resolution appointments (pFDRs), and solicitor-led negotiations – all delivered with clarity, compassion and care.
Can I explore NCDR if court proceedings have already started?
Yes. Many clients come to us mid-process (and sometimes even close to final hearing), seeking a more constructive route to conclusion. We have extensive experience in helping families pivot to more collaborative solutions, even amid litigation proceedings.
Practical considerations
How long does NCDR take? Is it faster than going to court?
Timelines can vary, but NCDR is almost always faster than going to court – especially now, with increased pressures on court listings meaning it is taking longer than ever to obtain a date for a court hearing. Our team has exceptional experience in guiding clients through every NCDR option and we will give you a clear sense of what timings to expect from the outset.
How much does NCDR cost compared to going to court?
NCDR is a more cost-effective alternative to court. Precise costs will depend upon your situation, the complexity and extent of the issues between you and therefore what process will best suit you/how much time will be needed. We will chat through with you at the start what we think the best process is for you and how much it will likely cost and then keep you updated along the way. The emotional cost of NCDR is far less than contested court proceedings, especially important where there are children.
Getting started
How do I begin the NCDR process with Forsters?
Simply get in touch with our Family team to arrange an introductory meeting. We’ll listen, explain your options, then guide you through each step with clarity, precision and confidence.
What should I prepare before my first meeting?
Bring any relevant financial or parenting information, and be ready to discuss your goals (both immediate and long-term). We’ll ensure you feel prepared and supported at each stage.
Can Forsters support international families or cross-border disputes?
Yes – we regularly advise on international family matters and handling the unique challenges posed by high-stakes cross-border cases. Wherever you are, we’ll lead you through even the most sensitive of challenges with certainty and compassion. Get in touch today and let us help you find the best way forward.
How we can help
Meet our team
Joanne Edwards
Partner, Head of Family
Mediator/Collaborative Lawyer
Simon Blain
Partner, Family
Collaborative Lawyer
Sarah Williams
Partner, Head of Children
Mediator and Children Arbitrator

Amanda Sandys
Counsel, Family
Collaborative Lawyer

Christine Abbotts
Senior Associate, Family
Mediator/Collaborative Lawyer
